This is the question Teyve asks and quickly answers in the opening scene of Fiddler on the Roof—perhaps one of the greatest Jewish heritage movies of all time. What is ironic is that Teyve’s character must determine how far he can bend the rules from his traditional Jewish upbringing in order to bless his youngest daughter’s choice for a husband.
So, is tradition just an anchor that stabilizes us in a sea of change? Well, it certainly helps to maintain a particular focus or way of thinking. But tradition is more than just a fixture stuck in the past. Tradition is also a living, breathing social construct when stories are handed down from one generation to the next.